Where Y’at?
My post are meant for all to read but I’m not addressing all viewers in every post. For example, this post. If you’re not in an interracial relationship, this post isn’t addressing you. If you’re in an interracial relationship with a black woman who doesn’t hate black men, this post isn’t addressing you. If you’re in an interracial relationship with a black man who doesn’t hate black women, this post isn’t addressing you. If you’re in an interracial relationship with someone non-black who doesn’t hate black men or women, this post isn’t addressing you, but again, all are welcome to stay and read. I greatly appreciate it.
Interracial relationships rooted in hate are something that needs to be addressed. Whether that hate be self-hate or hatred of the men or women of both races. There might be some who are unaware of the toxicity they’re spewing while in interracial relationships because to them it’s just how they love one another, if love is present. I’m not against interracial relationships or any other forms of relationships. I’m not one to tell people how to love or who to love, but I do speak on issues I feel the need to speak on. That is why I made sure I prefaced by mentioning those who I’m not addressing.
In the wake of a black female activist being murdered at the hands of a black man, I don’t want to hear “protect black women” from your white/non-black lover who is silent about black boys and men being gunned down by the cops. Chased down by white supremist and killed. Same goes for non-black women dating black men. I don’t want your “black male support” if you’re silent about the sexual abuse, the torture, the misogyny, hate and murdering of black women. If silence really is complacency then I shouldn’t be the only one noticing and calling out the silent partners in the interracial relationship industry. Just speaking up for the the lives that has the same gender as the black life you’re in love with doesn’t prove to me you aren’t racist or that you truly mean “black lives matter.” If I’m in a relationship with a transgender woman and I only speak up about injustices against the LGBT Community when one happens to be a trans-woman does that make me a true ally of the LGBT community? Does that really convince you that I care about LGBT lives and not just the lives that I fuck? The answer is no. I wouldn’t be a true ally and I wouldn’t be someone who cared about LGBT community. Take that same ideology and apply it to the black community. You’re not REALLY for the black community if you could care less about black men being murdered or black women being murdered and only speak up against the injustice when the wrong doing happens to a black person who looks like your lover. You’re really trash if you’re silent about black women/men being harmed unless the harm was done by another black man or woman. You’re just terrible at hiding your anti-blackness at that point. Don’t think for a second you’re not racist or guilty of practicing racism because you enjoy watching black men play sports, you enjoy the music we make and the iconic movie roles. You talk sports with us, have us on your fantasy sports teams and “jive talk” with us before you go back home to your black betty and use your “docile white man” voice. White women, you aint off the hook. Don’t think because your favorite co-worker is the funny “life of the party” black woman, you listen to Beyonce and twerk your white girl cakes to Tory Lanez music that it means you can’t be racist or have racist tendencies either. Fucking a black person doesn’t prove to me you’re for the black community. Standing up for the entire community regardless of their gender identification and sexual orientation is how you show me you truly believe black lives matter.
